When Infatuation Feels Like a Tsunami: ADHD, Limerence While Neurodivergent
Kim To··ADHD, Neurodiversity, Individuals, Relationships
The plan Date Mate gave me to help with ADHD Limerance 💡 Why AI? When used mindfully, AI can be an amazing support tool — especially between therapy sessions, when you're feeling emotionally overloaded, or just need a s
The plan Date Mate gave me to help with ADHD Limerance
💡 Why AI?
When used mindfully, AI can be an amazing support tool — especially between therapy sessions, when you're feeling emotionally overloaded, or just need a second brain that won’t judge you.
I believe that — like everything — it’s about being intentional and curious. I’m not replacing therapy or real connection. I’m creating digital tools that understand how neurodivergence shapes our experience of love and dating.
I made this for me, but if anything you’ve read feels familiar, this might help you too.Try Date Mate (free)
It’s designed to make dating less about spirals and more about grounded, informed choices — without losing your sensitivity, passion, or desire to connect deeply.
🧷 Final Words
Dating while neurodivergent can be hard — no doubt about it. But the more I understand my own patterns and needs, the more compassion I’ve developed for myself in love.
I’m still figuring this out, but I’ve already learned: I don’t need to “fix” the way I love — I just need better support for how I love.
Let me know what you think of Date Mate. I’d love your feedback if you test it out.
With curiosity & care,
Kim
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